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Jul 022015
 

How Single Men and Women Think (Alike) When Coupling Up

When love hits, you are filled with sexual desire combined with love and affection and needs of all kinds attached to one person. Then, your insecurities take over and you convince yourself it’s “only lust”. This is mutual to both men and women alike.

How women (generally speaking) think about men

Women think men don’t really want women for companionship but rather just for sex and for minding their children. (Sometimes this is true, too, but it’s been applied to all men and all situations across the board.) They believe men don’t want women to love them or care for them but really it’s about one thing only with men, and everything extra that comes along with that, it’s going to be a bit of a burden and something they don’t really want; the ball and the chain. Therefore, this becomes a game of bargaining: If I give you this, you’ll have to give me that. “What are you willing to give to me if I give you sex?” Men tend to think that women are after money and safety in the form of power, but what women expect is a pretense of true love, pretense of respect, willingness to do as you’re told and abide by societal rules of marriage, and for the man to not embarrass her in front of her family and friends. Women don’t normally wish for true emotions from him, they simply hope for the next best thing; the pretense of what would look like a real, happy marriage. They expect to get the fulfillment and human connection from the children that the marriage produces.

Many women also feel the need to be careful to not “let the sisterhood down” by allowing a man to “abuse her” in any way. In the modern world the red flags of “abuse” are going to be flying high all the time, including but not limited to doing anything the man would like. This is because if one woman agrees that *this* is acceptable, then she’ll send a message to other men that they have the right to expect *this* to happen in their relationships, and, therefore, cause a collapse of the feminist front. All too often women go into relationships with a “women against men” mentality, that is clearly never going to work in the favor of the relationship no matter how much you try.

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She will tie the knot when she finds a guy who ticks all the boxes of a “normal”, “respectable”, and “respecting” guy, who is not likely to put her to shame later on in life.

How men (generally speaking) think about women

Men have to go through a value judgement. Is this woman worth a) giving up my freedom to date other women b) giving up or reducing the time I spend with my friends and my hobbies c) giving up a whole lot of my money in my bid to be good to this woman d) risk losing some of my self-control and self-respect, and what are the benefits? Is this woman going to a) give me a lift in my social status due to marrying/going steady with someone better than I deserve b) is she going to be sexually willing and open c) is she going to take part in my finances or am I going to be solely responsible for her and our potential children financially? d) is she going to provide intellectual conversation opportunities or am I going to be listening to mindless crap being repeated all hours of the day – is she pretty enough to endure those moments? e) Is she even fertile? f) How long before she loses her looks? g) Is there any chance at all, that this woman might actually love him? That sort of thing.

Once he finds someone who he estimates to be as good as he’s ever going to get and most likely loyal (for either the virtue of her character or because he realizes she’s in love with him) he will be ready to tie the knot. If luck will have it, he’ll also be in love with her – although that is always risky business. It is very likely that he’s going to choose someone he is not quite that much in love with because he thinks his chances of not being cheated on are better with a second runner up than the first one.

This is not being “calculating” it is being “realistic”

The worst thing is, more or less everyone does this. Even romantics, because we have been told to be realistic and not trust feelings of love, let alone lust when making serious decisions like this. Even when people get together with the one they would DIE to have for themselves for the rest of their lives, they are likely to break up with them before they feel they get too deep into it. They think that “OK, I’m going to remember this for the rest of my life, but I will not going to be stupid enough to let this get too far when I’m only going to see it go up in flames later on.” The societal message to not trust these emotions is so strong, that it’s probably been centuries since the last couple trusted them and gave it a good go, so we all think it won’t happen. 😉

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Some people even sabotage their own relationship with the one they are truly in love with in order to make their reality match their idea of what is realistic to expect. If they cannot see anything to complain about, if everything is going entirely too good, perfectly, and they are in blissful happiness, people so often start looking for trouble. Their world view is so threatened that they are willing to destroy the relationship in order to feel safety in their misery.

How should you think instead?

Who am I to say, obviously, but I would suggest that you get out of your head and focus on how you feel. If there are fears present, access those fears and see what they are truly about. Who told you to be afraid? Why are you afraid? Why would you let the chance of loving the best girl or guy you’ve ever known pass you by? Is the risk of getting hurt or ridiculed really that great that you should pass on the opportunity to see where this could take you? Could you actually have a conversation with the person who you are thinking about and see if you see eye to eye about things? Could you perhaps understand where they are coming from, even though they are of the opposite gender? Could you believe that what they say is actually the truth and not just some made up story to make you fall for them deeper? And could you, possibly, maybe, consider the incredible odds that you might have found someone that truly, deeply loves you and for that reason, acts all weird around you.



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Jul 022015
 

Being Stalked on Facebook

Being stalked on Facebook is not a pleasant experience. I wonder in actual fact how many people have been stalked on Facebook? When one thinks about stalking the first scenario which pops to mind is one of a man obsessively following a woman with some sort of physically abusive intent.

But stalking actually takes many different forms. In fact, something which happens more frequently than you might expect is that someone begins to stalk you on Facebook. So many of us share photographs and an immense amount of our lives in written format on social sharing sites such as Facebook or through placing blog posts. Sometimes this is simply a social thing which we do; at other times this type of social posting is part of your business networking and marketing of your business interests.

You do not tend to get stalked by complete strangers whether you are being stalked in person or being stalked on Facebook; there is usually a tie of some description, loose though it may be. Thus it comes as a bit of a surprise when you are in the latter category (posting for business purposes) and you get stalked. But, if it has happened to you and you are aware that you have been the subject of Facebook stalking, when you look back you will realize with hindsight that it is far easier for the stalker to go about their sleuth work when you are intent upon and distracted by your business goals.

This is what happened to me. When your intent is networking or viral marketing you aren’t vetting every “friend request” very closely. If you were just using Facebook or your blog for personal reasons you would only accept real friend requests from people you know in person or only reveal your blog to close friends. And so I accepted as a friend a faceless request and they proceeded to hover over my photographs, blog posts and web pages with a jealous obsession of which I was at first blissfully unaware. I was being stalked on Facebook for more than a few months before I fully realized what was happening.

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I had in fact attempted to keep my Facebook profile one which was oriented towards “business only” activity. But inevitably, over time, your guard slips and you begin to think that it won’t matter if some of your friends are on there too. Not only that, many of your friends want to be there so as to assist you in virally marketing your business. In hindsight, I was far too trusting in the goodness of human nature.

It becomes very easy to stalk, and to be stalked, in these circumstances. Here the would-be-stalker is, sitting at home on Friday night, wondering perhaps what their ex is doing with their life. They find themselves drawn to Facebook and search for their name; up pops their page where you can see photos of all of their friends. Now you begin to wonder who those friends are. Which one is the new girlfriend? How does he know her or she know him? Starting to stalk or being stalked on Facebook is so damnably easily done.

It doesn’t take long to figure out who’s who when you have access to those pages on Facebook and a masochistic motivation to know more than is in fact good for you. It only takes a few more lonely weekends for you to consider it acceptable to create a bogus profile and begin to stalk on an on-going basis. I’m sure the stalker doesn’t see it as stalking and can find many a justification for their actions. But come on now, face reality, face the facts. You created a faceless page because you knew wanted to hide your identity. You knew you were totally out of line and your shadowy presence unwanted.

I was in fact amazed by the extreme anger I felt upon discovering my stalker. I was absolutely livid and in fact am still very galled by their nerve. I am normally a pretty peaceful person with a “live and let live” nature; I can put myself in the other’s shoes quite easily and automatically, and yet I found myself dealing with an instinctive desire to completely crush this person. In actual fact this is the normal “fight or flight” reaction kicking in at times of threat; being stalked on Facebook is a threat, same as if you are being followed down the street, and your mind and body instinctively ready themselves to fight back with everything that you’ve got!

I am reminded of a friend who had a slightly different experience but displayed the same livid emotional reaction. Another woman had persisted in telephoning and asking her and her husband to dinner. Again and again she called; again and again she happened to appear in the park outside their house. My friend explained that this other woman had an unveiled interest on her husband; she was in fact being stalked as a way to try to get to her husband.

She was not threatened by this in terms of making her fear losing her husband as they have a very solid relationship. But she found the whole situation totally insulting and was outraged that another woman could act like that towards her. Her emotions were so strong that she said she could not be in the same room as this woman without verbally ripping into her.

At the time I must admit that I thought her reaction was a bit over the top. As we discussed this whole stalking scenario, I pointed out that it wasn’t even worth worrying about; this woman’s interest in her husband was never going to be a real threat to her. Her response was that I had too forgiving a nature; that I was too open and trusting. As she said, who needs friends who would treat you like that? Why would you open the door to them?

Now that I have been subjected to a stalking experience myself, all be it via Facebook and not in person, I am totally with her; I find my forgiving nature has deserted me.

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What I found doubly ironic was that in the final email exchange on Facebook (the one which made me realize that this so called friend was in fact stalking me) she attempted to say I was being untruthful when I did not answer her question in the way that she wished. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black! She’d been lying and deceiving me intentionally for months whilst stalking me on Facebook.

She was in fact so determined to push me to agree with her viewpoint that she unwittingly revealed her identity. She was immediately deleted as a friend and the door slammed in her face. She will however still be able to stalk me to a degree. I will no longer be stalked by her on Facebook, but for my business I do post articles on my blog. In fact, I would wager a rather large bet that she reads this very article almost as soon as it is posted.

I rather hope that, as well as being embarrassed by her atrocious behavior, she has now realized that stalking me has never actually done her any good, and will perhaps recognize that it is high time to seek help with her insecurities and obsessions. She will maybe also realize that her own emotional baggage is what stops her from nurturing positive relationships.

To protect yourself against being stalked on Facebook, everyone should take at least a few basic precautions. Make sure there are recent photos to be seen, check that there are a fair number of friends, how long they have been on Facebook and what type of activity they have been involved in whilst on Facebook.

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Jul 022015
 

How to Seduce a Cougar

How to seduce a cougar (a nickname for mature women): It’s pretty easy if you know how. Seducing an older woman is really different from attracting an 18 year old girl. Most guys tend to take the “one size fits all” approach and use the same dating tactics and techniques on an older woman. The thing is that the older woman would have seen all the tricks that you use in her dating life. What you need are some different techniques which will work on older women (and not necessarily on younger girls). Read on to discover how to seduce a cougar and get amazing results…

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“Stop Trying To Impress Her”. You might be able to impress a younger woman with your Jaguar or Mercedes CL6, but a cougar would typically be financially secure in her life. Therefore, you would need to be able to appeal to her in a different way. One key thing that cougars want is MATURITY. Read on to the next tip for more about this…

“Display Maturity”. Cougars or older women won’t be impressed by childish behavior. They tend to seek out men who are emotionally stable and mature. This also means that they are ruled by their emotions – and this is something that you need to exploit to make her like you (read the next tip).

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“Appeal To Her Emotions”. Older women are typically more emotionally charged than younger women. You must appeal to her emotions by giving her the emotional rollercoaster that she deeply yearns in her life. When you are able to do this, you will be able to seduce her.



Source by Derek Rake

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Jul 022015
 

Have you ever wondered if men really like or even prefer easy women? Well they do, that’s right you heard me. Men Love Easy Women! The list of reasons why men like easy women goes on and on. There are many reasons why men honestly prefer easy women. Have you ever considered being an easy woman?

Why Men Love Easy Women. Easy Equals Easy Going

• These women are easy going and open to having a good time doing boy things.

• They don’t fuss over hair makeup and get upset if they mess up their clothes.

• These gals are not cry babies they take it as it comes.

• They are relaxed and open to try new things.

• These women go casual when the time comes to veg out and unwind.

• Laid back women know when to hang out like a buddy and keep a distance.

• They are confident women who know the art of making up and feeling good.

• They are secure women who don’t feel rejected as easily, they take a no without issue.

• They know how to avoid fights, break ups and divorce by compromise and reason.

• They know when to drop it, or never start it at all.

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NOTE – Men want you to look good without knowing about all the fuss that goes into the details. Keep the make up, hair and fashion tips to yourself. Men like you to leave something to the imagination.

The facts are that easy women tend to grow up with a few brothers and have learned the art of getting along with the boys. What you might see as an easy woman is anything but. Other women tend to label them as easy when in fact they are just easy going and easy to get along with. These chic’s are happy to be chic’s and easy to let the guys just be guys.

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Let’s face it the word easy goes well with men. Men like it easy, less complicated and laid back. That’s the number one reason men like an easy woman. So my dear girls if you’d like to learn the art of being laid back and how to hang with the guys, you must get your hands on a few more facts.

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Source by Katie Storm

Jul 022015
 

Debt Solutions For Single Moms

Being a single mom is challenging in itself and if you’re a single mother that is trying to improve your family’s financial situation, I have great news for you. There are numerous debt solutions that you can use to get out of debt and achieve your financial goals. In this short article, we will discuss the various sources of financial help that are available to moms like you.

1. Governmental grants. Government grants are financial assistance that doesn’t have to be paid back. Although grants are challenging to find, the benefits far outweigh disadvantages that you may experience. To find this type of assistance, conduct a search on the Internet for “government grants for moms” or “government grants”. Then, when you find one, you can use the received money to pay off your debts.

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2. Personal loans. Personal loans are available from private companies, banks, and lending institutions. With this type of assistance, you’ll have to pay back the loan after a set period of time. In addition, to qualify, you’ll have to prove your credit worthiness. For instance, if you have outstanding credit and a high credit score, lenders will likely seek you and offer favorable terms. However, if you don’t have good credit, your choices may be limited and you may have to pay a bit more.

3. Bank or credit union loans. Just like personal loans, bank and credit union loans have to be paid back. These loans are offered through banks lending institutions and credit unions. With these debt solutions, you have to qualify as well. To receive favorable terms, you often have to have good credit.

4. Credit cards. One option is to acquire a lower interest credit card. With this option, you consolidate your higher interest debt onto a lower credit card — hopefully one with a lower interest rate and better terms. Then, the amount of money you save in interest can be applied to debt reduction.

5. Car title and auto loans. With these types of loans, you give the lender a lien on your car or automobile in exchange for a loan. The terms of these loans vary depending on the state and amount of the loan you’re seeking. If this doesn’t seem like a viable option, you can consider refinancing your car with an auto loan at cheaper rate than you’re currently paying. This will then free up money that you can then apply for debt relief.

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6. Payday loans. These loans are closely related to car title loans. However, with these types of loans you don’t have to put up any collateral (like your car title) in order to get the loan. However, you will likely pay higher interest rates and high fees. In some instances, you may even pay a prepayment penalty if you pay it off early.

In conclusion, there are many debt relief alternatives that are available for single moms including government grant programs, credit cards consolidations, personal, auto, payday and even bank loans. In order to find the right debt solutions for you and your family, evaluate your personal situation carefully. In no time at all, you’ll find the right solution and will have better control of your debt.

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Source by Paul Sarwana

Jul 022015
 

Mature Women Dating – Dating After Divorce

Dating after divorce can be a very daunting challenge especially as you have been used to there being the two of you and having to go it alone can be very scary. Also because of your age you are concerned that mature dating is going to take you well out of your comfort zone.

The first thing to do when it comes to mature dating is to prepare yourself mentally. If you have friends that are single ask them where they go to meet people and whether they have dated online. They should know what the dating protocol is and can give advice. Take yourself back to when you were in your twenties and you used to chat with your friends about guys you had met or were hoping to meet. Well, just because you are more mature it doesn’ t mean that you can’ t still share your hopes and fears with a friend. Try and meet your fears head on. See if you can go out with a group of other singles and pick up on some ideas from them. With friends around you, dating won’ t seem so intimidating and you will have some added support.

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Stop being so self critical and doubting that anyone will find you attractive. So what if you need to lose a few pounds, you still have a great smile and a warm personality.

Go out a buy yourself a new outfit but don’ t look for clothes that you think may help you to attract a man. You may remember buying clothes from your youth. Well don’ t try squashing yourself into a smaller size of dress or wear high heels, if you are not used to them. Remember you are not trying to dress like a 20 something. Buy yourself an outfit that is smart, yet casual, that you feel happy in and that accentuates some of your best features. If you have lovely blue eyes, then buy a blue dress or a pretty blue blouse to accentuate them.

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Meet in a public place and spend as much time as you feel you need getting to know everything about a man, before taking him home to meet the family. Work on building friendships and getting to be comfortable around men instead of worrying about taking relationships any further.

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Jul 022015
 

How to Investigate a Person Without Them Knowing About It – A Quick and Accurate Method

How to investigate a person? There are times when we have no choice but to investigate a person.

For example, if you are a small business entrepreneur who need to hire a new worker, it is important that you find out more about the person you are going to hire. That is because a small business can easily crumble simply because of one wrong hiring decision.

There is also another situation where you need to investigate someone. If you are dating online, it is very important to find out more about the person you are going out with. There are many dangerous predators online waiting for their next prey. It is best to play safe so that you will not be surprised.

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How to Investigate a Person Without Their Knowledge

In the ideal world, there is really no need to investigate anyone. Just ask them about their background and they will tell you the truth without hiding anything from you.

Unfortunately, the world is very often less than ideal. If only things were so simple. That is why it is often necessary to carry out your own investigation. Most importantly, you do not want to let the other person know that you are investigating him or her in order to avoid any conflicts.

Obviously, you can easily hire a private investigator to do everything for you. However, it is quite expensive. And let’s not forget the fact that you might be down on your luck and end up hiring an incompetent investigator. He may be discovered before he managed to gather any evidence.

Thus, one of the best ways to investigate someone without their knowledge is to use online public record services. All you need is a computer and an internet connection. This is a very quick and accurate method

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Since you can easily conduct the investigation from the comfort of your home, there is no need to worry about being discovered. You can do it as discreetly as you like.

There are many public records services on the internet. Make sure you use a reputable service. A good service will usually charge around $20 for a complete background report, certainly much cheaper than hiring a private investigator.

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Source by Giberson Ling

Jul 012015
 

When a Guy Says He is Busy, What Does it Really Mean?

Have you ever had this happen to you? You have been going out this guy for a while and all of a sudden he says he is busy as in too busy to talk to you or to spend time with you. What does he really mean when he says this?

First of all, it means that something changed in the relationship between you two to cause him to go into this mode. That, however, is a whole other story.

Let’s give him the benefit of the doubt and say that he really is busy. Even so, if a guy is really interested in pursuing you, even if he is working 18 hours a day, 7 days a week, if he wants to see you and spend time with you, he will find a way to do so. Remember that men go after what they want and the women they want.

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Any time a guy says this to you and does not make an effort to spend time with you, he is just not interested in you or attracted to you. It is his way of trying to avoid you and to keep you at a distance.

So, now that you know exactly what is going on, what do you do?

I’ll tell you what you do NOT do. You do not call him; you do not text him and you do not bother him. You do not try to elbow your way into his busy schedule.

You let him be. If he is that busy, give him all the time and space that he needs to focus on his busy schedule. When you do this it allows him to see that you have no interest in trying to control him or his time. Remember that men appear to value their freedom above all else so let him have his freedom.

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More than that, it allows you the time to see if this is the sort of man YOU want in your life. He is clearly too busy for you so should you really be pining after him? We already know that if a man wants to be with you, he will move mountains to do so.

Why not start to enjoy YOUR freedom? It is funny how quickly your perspective changes when you do that! When your perspective changes, it is amazing how men in general will be drawn to you! Get a new perspective, check out my blog!

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Source by Alyssa K.

Jul 012015
 

Cougar Websites – What to Watch For When Cougar Dating Online

So it seems like everyone is talking about the cougar dating subject, again. What is really going on in the cougar realm today? What should you watch out for when dating in cougar websites?

For those of you who are not very familiar with the cougar term it basically signifies an older/mature woman who appreciates the mindset of youth and dates those who are youthful in mind, body, soul, or all. Additionally it could also signify a mature male, (“cub”) whatever his age, to be attracted to a mature woman who he can get along with on all other realms as well.

Dating on cougar websites has become quite popular now and many cougar dating communities have sprung up and are becoming very recognized. There has been a stigma about the cougar term every since it started becoming a catch phrase. Many people still think that the term just means a woman wanting a discrete physical relationship with a younger guy… and visa-versa. However, many “real cougars” will tell you it’s the opposite.

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The similarities are that it’s about a strong mental and intellectual appreciation from each person. That friendship and communication are the foundations. Some might tell you that the physical aspects of the relationship are very nice as well.

Many online dating cougar services have been springing up all over the Internet. Interestingly enough there are cougar websites that are very casual and safe. Those who are truly passionate about it can appreciate the real cougar subject. Unfortunately, there are some cougar websites that have not appreciated it.

Some things to watch out for on online cougar dating websites are:

1. Websites that have excessive promiscuous graphics, art, and advertisements. That usually promotes just that kind of behavior.

2. Websites that allow public nudity. Doing that gives a bad name on the cougar dating community and categorizes it on the lines of adult material – which it’s not.

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3. If the majority of the people that make up a cougar community engage in promiscuous or subjective talk. That is not what the real cougar subject is about.

However, there are cougar sites that are respectful, fun, and interesting. Some things that you will want to look for are a respectful and professional website, graphics and advertising that are not sexual or demeaning. Finally, doing research and reading reviews of certain cougar dating sites could help you make a more informed decision when dating in cougar websites



Source by Brett Mays

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Jul 012015
 

Acne and pimples is one of a teenagers worst nightmares, affecting more than 85% of the teenage population. Acne can be disfiguring, but its main effects are psychological which leads to low self-esteem.

What is acne?

Acne is the result of hair follicles and pores that become clogged. The most common form of acne is known as acne vulgaris. This does not mean vulgar, it just means common acne. Many teenagers get this type of acne. The most common area affected is the face followed by the back, shoulders and chest.

Why do some people get acne and some do not?

Although, much research and studies have been conducted in this field, no one knows for sure why one person gets acne and another person doesn’t. There are several factors that are associated with developing acne.

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The following is a list of possible links to acne:

* Hereditary: Acne tends to run in families where other members also have developed acne. Family history of acne is associated with earlier occurrence of acne.

* Use of anabolic steroids: Steroids affect the process of pubertal growth and sebaceous glands. Sebaceous glands are connected to hair follicles which secrete an oily substance called sebum. When this process is altered (by steroids) these glands and pores get clogged up, resulting in acne.

* Medication: Any medication containing…lithium (treatment for migraine and cluster headaches, bipolar disorder, depression)…barbiturates (sedative/hypnotic drugs)…androgens (steroid drugs) contribute to acne.

* Hormones: Acne may be hastened by androgens, male hormones that are present in both women and men. These androgen hormones have long been faulted for acne. They stimulate the sebaceous glands, producing more oil, which leads to clogged pores and provides a breeding ground for the acne bacteria.

* Bacteria in the pores: Propionibacterium acnes (P. acnes) is the anaerobic bacterium that causes acne. When the sebaceous glands start to over produce oil, the p.acne invades the hair follicles and starts to multiply by feeding themselves of the oil using enzymes. Acne bacteria then produces fatty acids that inflame the skin. Red and white blood cells start to defend the body of this inflammation often causing an inflammatory response, that results in pimples, whiteheads, zits, swelling and pus.

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* Chemicals: Exposure to dioxins not only causes acne-like pimples, but are among the most dangerous poisons known.

* Accumulation of dead skin cells: Acne begins when the oil (sebum) mixes with dead skin cells. This combination plugs up the skin’s pores and becomes infected with bacteria that oozes into nearby tissues, resulting in swelling, nodules, pimples or whiteheads.

* Stress: Stress doesn’t cause acne, but stress often makes it worse.

The first signs of acne should be treated as soon as possible.The earlier the treatment the better chance of getting rid of it before possible scarring. There are a variety of products and treatments for acne. You may have to try different ones to see which works best on your acne.

Acne, Why Do Some People Get it and Some People Don’t?

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Source by Lamar Dean

Jul 012015
 

Growing up in a Single Parent Household

Growing up in a single parent household can be tough. It has its advantages and disadvantages. I grew up in a single parent house with my mother and maternal grandparents. I still remember the fateful day when my mom was served divorce papers. I had just come back from school; I was in third grade and had started enjoying the trials and tribulations of school. I found my mother crying and my maternal grandparents looking angry and worried at the same time. Since my dad had a touring job and mom used to work, my maternal grandparents had set up home with us.

I guess I knew at that moment that dad had left mom for good. I think I had known for some time that things between my mom and dad had not been smooth; arguments and even physical fights had been increasing in intensity day by day. The reason, in my opinion, was my dad’s job. He was constantly on the move and many times I felt that I did not have a father. He could never attend any of my school functions or even my birthday parties. The last straw came when dad announced his intention of leaving mom and moving in with his girlfriend.

Divorce was just a finality and in my true opinion, it was the best thing that could have happened to everyone concerned. Mom and I had established a rapport with each other. This wavelength extended even to my grandparents and, so for me the divorce did not bring about major changes. It was just another shocking event for me to forget and move on with my life. Yes, we did move to a smaller house in a new neighbourhood. I had to change school and that distressed me a lot. Mom took on a new and more demanding job in a private financial institution. It meant longer working hours but the pay was good. Grandmother did her best to plug all parental holes but I did feel sad many times.

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I had always been without the presence of one parent but now through divorce I was slowly losing another to a demanding and financially secure job. But being a girl, I guess, adapting to the new lifestyle was easy. Girls are created by nature to be adjusting and willing to shoulder responsibilities. I had to forego many school activities but I didn’t complain. Grandfather started doing a part time job as consultant to contribute to the financial security. But, I missed having both my parents about. Even If dad had been away, I always had contact with him. But now I had no communication with him. It was as if he had disappeared completely from my life. To counteract this feeling of abandonment and hurt, I soon turned inward. I became an introvert preferring the company of books to friends. I turned to a sublimation method of dealing with my anger. I became a loner with a minimal social network. In fact I still experience acute phobia and nervousness when meeting new or old acquaintances. I became academic-oriented and started taking lessons in painting and sculpting to give vent to my frustration.

As time passed, I soon began to have minimal conversation with my mother and even my grandparents. There was no mutual exchange of dialogue in our house. I was so wrapped up in my life that my mother became a stranger to me. Today, I am still described as a loner. I am afraid of life-long commitment; what if the man I marry divorces me? I don’t want to be like my mother, worrying about money and the future all the time. I am doing well professionally but socially I am a misfit. I have very few friends; I tend to avoid people. But in my view development is healthy and normal if growing up with the same sex parent as sole custodian. Research indicates that boys more than girls need a male authority figure. Girls, on the other hand, also suffer when they grow up in a single father household. They are denied communication at the emotional level. They also feel they cannot talk about the concerns of puberty.

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It is the same with boys. They feel awkward and don’t know how to handle sexual changes. Further, mothers often see boys as emotional support systems and expect them to shoulder responsibilities. In the same vein, fathers expect daughters to take care of household duties. Children need both parents for healthy development. One parent is not fit to provide the cognitive, emotional and social refuge demanded by growing children. It may seem that a child is growing up normally in a single-parent household. But usually the adverse effects of growing up in single-parent households are felt in later childhood or adulthood.

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Dating After Divorce For Men

Dating after going through divorce can be an interesting and challenging thing to contemplate. Depending on how smoothly your divorce went, you may or may not be ready to seriously contemplate dating. Assuming you are, here are a few tips that might increase your chances of success:

Take It Slow – No need to rush into anything. Take the time to learn from your last relationship and try to understand what went wrong and how to avoid that with a new partner. Most men want to jump right back into it without contemplating what went wrong. Avoid this and try to figure out what you want.

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Online Dating – Consider Online Dating! It doesn’t have the stigma that it did years ago, and services like eHarmony and Match.com are well suited to find you a perfect match. It saves both the time and hassle of dating in the real world and allows you to get much closer to finding the perfect match.

Dating Techniques – Depending on how long you were married, you may need to brush up on being single again. Were you last single in High School or College? A lot has changed since that time and you may need to study up on dating as an adult (especially being a divorced man).

Have Kids – This is a tricky one. View your children as an asset, not a liability. Ensure that people you are dating are aware of your children, and get a feel for how they take it. Be up front, and don’t stay with someone who has a problem with your children. Your children are with you forever, and if a potential spouse cannot accept that, time to move on.

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Dating – Haven’t Dated in Years?

If you haven’t dated in years the idea of dating can be a scary prospect. Dating isn’t like riding a bike; things have changed a lot in the past decade. There is always the old standby of hanging out at the bar hoping the right person comes along. But let’s face it you don’t want to do that every night. So where do you start, where do go to find that person who will spend some nights home with you and other nights visiting the local art gallery or coffee shop?

There are many more options for finding the perfect someone and many new ways of getting into the dating scene. Most of the new ways to start dating are due to technology. Some were created because so many people have very hectic schedules. The first place to start is the internet.

Dating isn’t as easy as it was in college. You can’t just hang out at the promenade and find a bunch of girls with your same interests. You can’t go to the bar and hope to find dozens of women looking for the same things you are. How do you even strike up a conversation these days? How do you know if someone will be into the same author or artist? Actually how do you even know if they are into reading or art?

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The internet is full of dating sites, each one that is full of online profiles of people seeking other people. You can browse online sites full of profiles and your odds are a bit better than hanging out at the bar. Most sites will allow you to set up search parameters based on what you are looking for in a partner. You can select hair color, height, body size, personality type, interests, and sometimes a few other things to search by. You end up with a list of people who match your search requirements, a starting point to enter the dating world.

The internet also has matchmaking sites or you can look up a matchmaker in the yellow pages. Matchmakers get a lot of information from you about the kind of person you are, your likes and dislikes, and exact what you are looking for in a partner. They use this information to browse their databases for potential matches. Essentially they do the leg work for you. They are really good for people who don’t have a lot of time on their hands or who just don’t want to browse a bunch of profiles hoping to stumble across the right one. Matchmakers will set you up on a date with someone who matches what you want in someone.

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Going on a date with someone who likes books, likes art, or likes the same music you do makes everything easier. If you already know this about them then you have a place to start the conversation. Just knowing that you were brought together by the same matchmaker is a conversation starter.

If you haven’t been on a date in a long time, just relax. There are a lot of new things in the dating world but many of these things are designed to make it easier for you to find that perfect someone. The world is a much bigger place than it was a decade ago so technology adapted to bring that world to your doorstep. Just relax, talk about your common interests or talk about technology. Chances are your partner will have noticed the same changes in the world that you see.



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Source by Emily Jacob

Jul 012015
 

Online Marketing Strategies – What is Acquisition Marketing?

Online marketing can no longer be considered as an afterthought when developing a marketing strategy. In 2008, Ofcom reported that online marketing represented a fifth of total UK revenues from advertising – and we believe it’s still got a long way to go.

There are good reasons for its unprecedented growth. One of the main reasons online marketing has always been at an advantage to other forms of marketing is because of its ability to drive acquisition, in such a transparent and accountable way. More often than not, it is ‘acquisition marketing’ that clients are looking for – marketing with the end goal of acquiring new business. A well thought out acquisition marketing shouldn’t even stop there, but should really continue into the realms of adding value to the acquired customers to ensure repeat business where applicable, and/or referrals.

How to achieve acquisition through online marketing

In order to achieve effective acquisition marketing, there needs to be a clear and cohesive pathway for the customer to follow, right from the first click through to the point of conversion. This starts with a clear understanding of what you want the customer to do. If this isn’t clear in your mind, then it’s going to be very hard for the customer to figure out.

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A marketing campaign which successfully brings thousands of people through to your site, all of whom are not particularly interested in what you have to offer and so leave immediately once they get there, cannot be called acquisition marketing. Traffic is simply a means to an end, and as such – can become a time consuming red herring.

A campaign which brings in thousands of people who are interested in your products or services, only for them to be bamboozled with such labyrinthine navigation or off-putting messages or design that they give up and go elsewhere before converting, is also not acquisition marketing.

A successful acquisition campaign must keep the visitor engaged at every single point along their journey towards becoming one of your valued customers.

This can only result from a genuinely integrated approach to online marketing, working on all areas of a campaign simultaneously, with the sole aim of leading visitors through seamlessly to the point of purchase or conversion. Implementing funnel / drop-off tracking is also key in this process, as often there is more to learn from the ‘non-converters’ than the ‘converters’.

Short AND long-term benefits

There is still a place for brand building exercises, which will not only change or enforce your consumers’ perceptions of you over time, but also deliver better recall, referral and brand equity.

But with acquisition marketing, it is important to look for measurable ways to increase levels of sales and conversions in a much shorter space of time. Part of the trick here is to not only make the process easy for customers, but also to spend time understanding their mindset, needs and concerns. By understanding these, you can begin to alleviate them – by offering them extra information, assurance or testimonials along the conversion funnel. Ideally, you want to dispel any concerns they have before they have even manifested.

Working with this mindset, you will be able to take marketing forms such as pay-per-click advertising, and make them work even more efficiently than they are already.

Keeping your customers happy

When people have had a good experience with a customer or product, they simply can’t spread the word fast enough. Looking after your customers in the same way is one reason why acquisition marketing is also of long-term. Happy customers do two things: return and refer.

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Increasingly, as natural SEO has evolved from being focused on “onsite” optimisation techniques – and moved into using more and more “offsite” factors when determining a site’s importance – an increasing number of long-term benefits from arise from SEO work as well – including link building, content optimisation and strategic partnerships – all of which can yield results for many years to come.  

The significance of measurability

The real key to acquisition marketing is measurability, and this is something uniquely suited to online marketing.

For those in the business of online marketing, there are now an almost infinite number of tools at our disposal for diagnosing precisely what kind of results our efforts are generating with our online marketing techniques.

This means that it is possible to prove, without doubt, that you are gaining the right kinds of results, with an extraordinary amount of precision. It’s no wonder that, according to the European Online Advertising Through 2013 report, online ad spend is predicted to carry on growing throughout the recession.

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Source by Andrew Atalla

Jun 302015
 

Live Webcam Chat Room – The Ultimate Way to Date Online

Imagine having a live face-to-face conversation with a prospective date, without leaving your house. That’s what a live webcam chat room is about. Live webcam chat dating is becoming one of the hottest additions to the online dating scene.

This dating method is changing the way we meet prospective mates on the internet. By allowing us to see and talk to each other, webcam chat dating gives a breath of life into the rather impersonal dating method that internet dating is.

Not only that but, being the visual creatures that we are, it also offers visual stimulus to our brains, as well as bringing body language into play.

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At a live webcam chat room, you get to meet and talk with interesting, like-minded people as though they are right there in front of you. This is internet dating at its best.

There are advantages of webcam chat dating. The most obvious advantage is being able to see your “date” live, just as in a face-to-face meeting. This helps reduce much of the lying (especially about age and looks) that goes around in internet dating.

Spontaneity is another advantage. You are assured that responses are neither canned nor well thought out in advance, or even stolen so as to impress you. Having a live conversation while simultaneously watching the other party also helps keep most scam artists at bay, since one cannot pretend to be someone else.

Another advantage of webcam chat dating is that it is a safe way of having a close to real-life conversation (especially with a stranger). You see, with webcam chatting no one can physically hurt you, so you feel safe and secure.

You also get to know more about your date and his/her mannerisms before an actual meeting. This can be a two-edged sword. Why?

You see, while getting to know somebody before a real life meeting can be beneficial, it can also lead to excessive trust in someone who is still by and large a stranger. This can be dangerous – caution and commonsense still need to be exercised.

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Yet another advantage of webcam chat dating is that it helps gauge chemistry before committing to a face-to-face meeting. If the chat is not going well on webcam, it is not likely to go well in real life either.

When joining a live webcam chat room – which you need to do so as to meet others – ensure that the site is reputable. Unscrupulous webcam services have been known to sneak malicious Trojan horse software into your computer, which can invade your privacy.

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Source by David Kamau

Jun 302015
 

Cougar’s Life Expectancy

Cougars are on the prowl, but there is some information that they should know about. If you don’t know, cougars are women who are usually middle aged who go after younger men. Studies show they are more likely to die young. The studies that are out there indicate that women who marry younger men have a decrease life expectancy, which is contrary to the general trend of married people enjoying an increase in life expectancy.

The reverse effect can be seen by men who marry younger women. It seems that these men have an increased life expectancy by marrying ladies who are younger than them. Meanwhile, women who marry a guy seven to nine years younger are 20 percent less likely to live as long as other women.

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There is an opposite effect for men of the same age difference. A man seven to nine years older than his wife will have an 11 percent lower mortality rate than similarly aged men. Women’s life expectancy is actually directly proportional to the gap in age between her and her spouse. The study was conducted among roughly two million Danish couples over the course of several years.

The evidence is contrary to the long-held assumption that women select younger men who can keep up with them because of relative healthy. This is not held to be true. There are a couple of explanations. For one, women maintain outside relationships and therefore are less likely to experience a benefit from the marriage. Also, women who marry younger men are more stressed out and that kills them quickly.

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It is still true that women generally live longer than men, regardless of marriage and who they marry. Also, marriage tends to increase life expectancy overall for both men and women. Scientists will no doubt revisit these stats again and again, exploring what makes people tick.



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Jun 302015
 

1. I like the way you look in your jeans (or suit, or shorts). Simply giving a man you have just met a compliment about how they look in something they are wearing will quickly create interest in you.

2. You seem like a nice guy. So how many girlfriends do you have? — Talk about an ego boost. Men love to have their ego massaged, and if you do it by letting them know that you think they look good enough to have more than one girlfriend, they will want to know what else you think about them. Mind you saying this to a guy that thinks he is God ‘s gift to women may not be as effective as saying it to a guy who looks good, but does not even realize how good he looks.

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3. When you are first introduced to him and you shake hands, let the handshake linger. Hold his hand a little longer and look into his eyes with a smile. Let go of his hand and make it seem that you did not realize that you shook his hand a little too long.

4. If he is the type that works out at the gym. Squeeze his arm a little and ask him how he got such big biceps. Talk about filling a guys head with hot air. He will eat this complement hook, line, and sinker.

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5. If the guy is the type that spit-shines he car or motorcycle. Give him a complement and let him know that you would like a ride someday.

It is easy to get a guy to instantly like you if you say the right things. The trick is to complement him or something about him in a very casual laid back manner. You come across as real and down to earth. Use any of these techniques to add some fun to your dating life.

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Source by Steve Ubah

Jun 302015
 

Single Mom Scholarships – Applying For $10,000

I did it, I was awarded $10,000 and I am using it to go back to college, you can do it to. All you need to do is apply and you can return to college to pursue your new career. This could be you right now.

Moms today are ready and willing to return to college to start their new careers, there is only one thing holding them back, money. Many don’t have the funds to return to college. So these moms who need to enter the workforce don’t have the same opportunities as those who can afford to return college.

College is very expensive today and taking out a loan today and adding more debt to their lives is not something moms want to do. Some don’t even have the ability to take out a loan because of bad credit. Today a huge percentage of Americans have too much debt as it is, adding more is not an option.

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The only way to get around this problem is by getting money that doesn’t need to be paid back. The government recognized this fact, that moms do not have the ability to pay the exorbitant fees for college. To assist them they created a grant program, this program will allow moms to return to college by giving them $5,000. To make it more enticing the money is not like a loan, it doesn’t need to be paid back.

With the support of the government private agencies created these scholarship programs which will assist moms by giving them $10,000 for college. The use of scholarships is at an all time high today because of the floundering employment rate and terrible economy.

They are completely geared toward providing free funding for all college expenses which include tuition fees, supplies and miscellaneous fees. Just like the grants this money is free to use and does not need to be paid back.

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The benefits of returning to college are important when applying for a job; a college education brings higher pay, better jobs, retirement and health benefits that would not be available without a college education, plus the benefits that will arrive in the future.

There is no better time than now to grab this opportunity, since the employment is at an all time low and the economy is struggling, free money might not be available again for a longtime.

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Jun 302015
 

Dating After Divorce – Once You Get Over the Heartache, You Can Move on

We are not going to sit here and tell you just how hard getting a divorce is, because we are sure you already know this. However, what we are going to tell you is just how easy dating after divorce can be. Sure, you do not know whom to trust, but you should just get out there and get on with your life. Life is too short to waste time wondering if he or she is the right one. If he or she is the right one, then your heart will tell you so. Starting out can be as difficult or as hard as you make it. If you have been married for 20 years, then you may find it a bit awkward.

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Of course, you need to make sure you are ready to start dating. Sure, a couple of weeks or a couple of months after that divorce, you will more than likely not be ready to date. However, if years have passed, then you should learn how to get back up in that saddle. When you first start dating, you may start to experience some grief and sadness, but try not to think about it. Think of the future that you could be building with a new person that cares about you.

When dating after divorce, it is important that you go out and try some new activities on your own. Meeting someone to date could be hard. Chances are, the right person is not going to turn up at the grocery store and those bar pickups hardly ever turn into anything fantastic.

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Therefore, you need to get out in the community and get involved with activities. Those extra activities will allow you to meet and interact with new people.

Of course, you should take your time. If you really do not feel ready to start a relationship, then don’t do it. If you do not want to get out in that dating world just yet, you should still find someone whose company you enjoy. If a romantic relationship comes about, then that is even better.

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Jun 302015
 

Meet Girl Gamers With Xbox Live

Would you like to meet girl gamers with Xbox Live? How many cool gamer chicks have you met on Xbox Live that like the same games that you do? I would guess to say not a whole lot. Xbox Live is kind of a minefield for girl gamers. They are vastly outnumbered by guys and there is a never ending stream of insults hurled their way. A lot of girls get tired of it after awhile.

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This sucks because first of all the number of girls that enjoy the same games that you do are far outnumbered by guys. And the ones that do try to play online sometimes don’t last too long or cut their game time way back because of how some guys treat them.

For those two reasons it ain’t easy to meet cool and sexy girl gamers. This is a bummer because if you’re reading this article you probably game on Xbox Live a lot and if you could meet girls that enjoy it as much as you do that would be perfect.

It’s not any easier to meet them locally either. Where are you going to find them? Are you going to loiter around the local video game store all day hoping a girl walks in? Yeah, right. That would be pathetic. There is no particular local place that serves as a good way to meet girls who play video games.

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What you need is a site dedicated to bringing together girls that enjoy Xbox Live as much as us guys do. And as shocking as it may seem, this site actually exists. You can meet girl gamers, get a chance to know each other and it even includes which games they like and what time you will see them online!

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Source by Travis Ellison