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When you're in the midst of passion, anything can come out of your mouth. If you and your partner are into dirty talk, you might hear fantasies and desires that surprise or even shock you. How do you handle a dirty talk scenario that makes you wildly uncomfortable?

When the passion is over and your mind is clear, think about what was said. Why did it make you so uncomfortable? Did it bring to mind a bad memory? Did it make you wonder what your partner really wanted to be doing in bed at that moment? Did his desires make you feel bad about yourself? Whatever the reason, pinpoint it and write it down. Putting it on paper in black and white will help you work through the details of why you feel the way you do.

Consider how you will bring it up with your lover. If this is something that you feel you need to discuss, plan your approach. Make sure you present your concerns in a loving, non-judgmental way. If you are accusing at all, your partner will likely retreat into a self-conscious shell, and won't bother telling you any more of those fantasies. That is a breakdown in communication, and that is not good!

Once you've chosen a way to approach the subject, do it when you are both relaxed and open to discussion. Don't attempt to start the talk immediately after you've had sex - talk about killing the afterglow! Don't do it when you are busy with other things, or when stress seems to have taken over your day. Approach your partner at a time when you know he will be open to what you have to say. Allow plenty of time for the discussion.

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Keep in mind that your partner might not think anything is bothering you. His dirty talk could well have been completely spur of the moment, and he might not even remember what he said! If it was just something thrown out in the heat of the moment when he was experimenting with a few fantasies, you can chalk it up to nothing more than that and move on. If he admits the scenario he suggested is one that he wants to try, however, you've opened the door for discussing it.

Always be loving toward your partner as you discuss those fantasies. Remember that it took a lot of trust to get to this point, and the dirty talk between the two of you is so much hotter for it. You aren't the only one who has heard things that might be shocking - consider that you might have dropped a few stunners along the way, and your lover has accepted them. Doesn't he deserve the same consideration from you?

Finally, remember - the hottest dirty talk just might involve things you would never really do if the opportunity arose. Keep it all in perspective, and remember that your partner is the one in bed with you - the one who is focusing all his attention and dirty talk skills on you. You lucky little vixen!

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One of the biggest hurdles to talking dirty is confusion. You may ask yourself "What does my partner want" or maybe you ask yourself "Should I Know How To Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend?" and than you might want to know what is going too far, and what isn't going far enough? How do you even know that he will embrace your naughty vixen at all? If he's dropped hints or talked dirty to you in bed, you've got a clue that he wants you to get a little raunchier. But for the beginner who isn't sure where to go from here, the whole idea of dirty talk can be intimidating.

Start out slow - flirt! Show your lover how much you want to be with him. Slip a sexy note into his briefcase or stick a post-it on the dashboard of the car. Make it short and sweet - "I loved the things you did to me last night" - and let his imagination run wild. Send him an email at some point during the day, telling him something different, a little flirty, but not over-the-top: "I love the way your kisses taste."

He's probably going to write back, or somehow engage you to talk more, and you should! Don't hesitate to get a bit steamier. "I love the way you sound when you do that thing you do," is a good line that will make him wonder: How do I sound? And what thing, exactly? It will get him thinking about the last time the two of you made love, and that's what you want him to do. You want him thinking about sex with you, because the more he thinks about it, the more he's going to want a repeat performance.

When you are in bed, test your dirty talk wings by trying out anything other than words. Talk to him in sighs, moans and groans. Show him what you want by your breathing, and let your body be your guide - take his hand and show him exactly where you want to be touched, and how. Even if you've had sex a thousand times, having such an outright showing of desire will make it seem like a whole new game.

When the sighs and moans have gotten your point across, start talking about his body - and yours! Caress his shoulders while you tell him how strong and powerful he feels. Tell him how small you feel when you're next to him. Do that one little thing that makes him breathless, look him right in the eye, and ask, "How much do you like that, big boy? Do you want more?"

Making him talk to you will guide you to the kind of dirty talk he wants to hear. If he gets raunchy and makes you blush, don't cower into saying nothing - counter his naughty words with sexy words of your own. Build up the tension until you're saying things that you would never, ever say in the light of day. If he backs off a bit, you might have shocked him, so go back to the words you know he likes to hear.

On the other hand, if he responds favorably to your hard-core dirty talking, the sky's the limit!

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5 TIPS TO PLEASE YOUR MAN IN BED


Written by Michael Webb

Want to give your man a thrilling experience like
never before? Here are 5 really simple ways to make
your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more
passionate, starting tonight!


1. THE BEST POSITION FOR HIS ENJOYMENT

Practically every animal species utilizes the
rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a
natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you
won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many
benefits. It’s great for guys because it gives them
full control.  This is one of the best positions
for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle
your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and
other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man
is that he’ll be able to get incredibly deep
penetration (above-average guys need to be careful
as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be
quite painful).


2. FIND YOUR MAN'S "HIDDEN ZONES

Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call
these “hidden” zones because many people don’t
realize, or forget, that these areas of the body
LOVE attention. While many of these zones are
obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs,
there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed
and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even
intensify their orgasm. Believe it or not, the
ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really
sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend
some time during foreplay caressing and touching
these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.


3. SET A ROMANTIC MOOD

Think men aren’t romantic or wouldn’t appreciate
it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and
kind gesture. Of course you might think that using
candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set
the mood of your lovemaking is a little too
“cliché.” But he’ll think differently! Your partner
will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you
would feel if someone went to all the trouble to
create a special lovemaking occasion that you can
cherish for years to come. Could this be so
“cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point
made.


4. GIVE HIM A HAND JOB

When beginning a genital massage, start with
lighter, irregular strokes ­ like teasing. As you
get further and further into it, stick with two or
three main strokes that your partner really enjoys.
Developing a good rhythm that your partner can get
into is the key to bringing your partner to orgasm
with a genital massage.


5. PLEASE YOUR MAN WITH MORE ORAL SEX

If I had to give you one piece of advice to make
your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art
of fellatio. It’s true, all men love it. It feels
great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort
to let somebody have their mouth down there. In
short, it’s an important part of lovemaking and is
often the main event.  Problem is, women often
start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway
when, actually, they should start with some playful
teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much
more powerful orgasm as it heightens his
anticipation. Make sure you use different
techniques and your tongue, as well.

So there you have it. Five great ways to make your
man more satisfied in the bedroom. While they’re
all great, I would recommend putting most of your
energy and time into learning fellatio, simply
because men crave it so much and the loving smile
and kisses you’ll probably get in return are
definitely worth it.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of
Blow by Blow: the complete guide to fellatio.
Unfortunately, most women leave men frustrated and
disappointed after fellatio. Learn to be one of the
rare women who can satisfy him with oral sex.

To learn more, visit:
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It is really easy for women to tighten their vagina. All that's required is a bit of information about the vaginal anatomy and some time for doing the exercise. Kegel exercise are really easy to perform and can be performed at distinct places and whenever you find time. The only thing that is required with them is a dedication and nothing else. Once you start practicing them daily I am sure the results are guaranteed and your vagina will surely become tight. It must be brought to the notice of women that your vagina not only becomes tighter but also becomes stronger with the help of these exercises.

What the Kegel exercises actually do is target the PC muscles which form the floor of vagina. Keeping the Kegels in control are really essential and only if the Kegels are in control they can be said to be strong. Having strong Kegel muscles can make your sex life really awesome. If you have control over the Kegels than you can provide a lot of pleasure to your partner and make him squirm. Also it will give you multiple orgasms by which all your desires will be fulfilled.

It is always necessary to start with the Kegel exercises at an earlier stage of life because the muscles are fresh then. Once menopause is achieved the muscles become really weak and then it becomes difficult to gain control over them, if you gain control over them at an earlier stage of life that would be better. People care a lot about their external looks but nowadays they also focus on their internal looks and Kegel exercises provides one such mean which develops and improves our body internally. The effect of these exercises will not be seen in an overnight but it takes normally 2 months to see some effect.

Some benefits of Kegel exercises are -

• Help achieve multiple orgasm

• Helps in strengthening of your muscles

• Gaining control over them

• Helps to avoid continence

• An enjoyable sex life

• Enhances your inner beauty and makes you confident

• Makes you feel young

• Helps in child birth and regain strength of your muscles after the birth of your child.

There are various gadgets available in the market which can help you perform the Kegel exercises in a much better way. Also make sure you breathe properly while practicing Kegel exercises. If your stomach, leg or buttock moves along with the exercise then you should recognize that you are proceeding in the wrong direction and performing the exercise in a wrong way.

Last time I talked in general terms about boobs and having fun with them. This time I want to get a bit more specific and give you some suggestions on how to work on your babe's boobs and what will give her the best sensations and what won't. Fortunately no two girls are the same so what works for me and many other chicks may not work on your babe; lets face it, there are some girls out there who don't want their tits to be touched by anyone. Personally I love guys playing with my tits and whenever my partner and I are just cuddling I'm not happy unless he spends some time fondling my boobs, after-all my boobs are there for a reason, and that reason is HIM.

Obviously you all realize that tits come in all shapes and sizes from very small up to very large. I've had fun with a girl who really had no tits at all just very large nipples. On the other hand my natural D's while big are not the biggest natural tits out there. I am sure that you have all seen pics on various websites of babes with natural boobs up to sizes so big that they would kill you if they ever fell on you. It's just as well that girls boobs come in all shapes and sizes because guys tastes differ too. Some guys love babes with very little up top, my friend with nothing but nipples has no shortage of guys who want to get her into bed. Other guys like flirting with potential injury and only want to play with the biggest tits they can find and in between there are guys who just like tits ñ no matter what size they come in. I suppose with all this variation and interest in girls boobs it was not long before scientists began looking at them too (the little perverts!?!).

Now there is an excuse if ever I heard one, why didn't they just say they wanted to look at tits because they like looking at tits? I know a couple of scientists intimately and they're just as randy as any other guy but they do like to be discreet so I guess hiding their interest behind a scientific study into tits is understandable. The studies have shown that while babes with big tits have the most fun it's the babes with the perky little tits that have the most sensation. Evidently the longer you stretch nerve fibre the less amount of sensation that is passed along it so babes with little tits have shorter nerve fibres than babes with big tits. This means that when you lick or nibble a small tit you will produce more sensation for the owner of that tit and give them a bigger buzz than you will give a girl who has big or droopy tits.

When talking about boobs it's impossible to overlook those wonderful little brown thingies that sit on the end of most boobs, the nipples. Big nipples have lots of nerve endings in them and when given the right sort of attention these nerve endings can send a girl into orgasm very easily I know from personal experience. On the other hand big nipples can be over sensitive and produce so much sensation that it becomes painful for the girl. So tread warily until you know how much sensation your babe gets from her big nipples. Small nipples tend to be less sensitive and for many girls with small nipples the areola (the brown circular area around the nipple) is more sensitive and the area on the areola between 10 and 2 is the place to play. A small percentage of girls have inverted nipples but they get just as much sensation from sucking, licking and touching as other girls do.

So in case you're wondering, here is what works for me. If you're going to suck my boobs then you should definitely not suck so hard you are going to bruise me no girl likes to be damaged like that, especially a hooker because bruising will cost her money. Instead don't be too gentle either, just a nice firm suck and while you're doing it run your tongue around my nipples and I'll get so wet you will be able to feel my juices running all over your balls. If you want to nibble be gentle ñ hold my nipples in your teeth and gently pull and you will very quickly here how loudly I can moan. If you want to touch my breasts then cup them in your hands and squeeze gently or even run your fingers lightly around the areola and flick the nipples gently now and again. Treat me like that and you'll get special treatment in return every time.

Now I suppose I should tell you what the experts say will please a woman. Iím not sure what qualifies these people as experts seeing that they are all men but I do want to give you a balanced view. The experts suggest that if your babe has big boobs then she gets the best sensation while lying on her back and you should concentrate on the outside of the breasts below the armpits and use your tongue and fingertips with a light flicking motion. A little nibbling may be good too. After reading that all I can say is that I'm glad I don't have those experts playing with my boobs.

As I said before, that is not going to apply to everyone and it certainly doesn't apply to me. If it's a guy I like then nothing gets me hornier than sitting on his cock while he sucks, nibbles and plays. The sensation when I'm lying on my back is nice too but it isn't anywhere near as good as what I get when I'm on top If your babe has small breasts the experts suggest that you should gently bounce your babes tits around in the cups of your hands remembering that small tits are much more sensitive than big ones. If you're lady is breastfeeding an infant then you should be as gentle as you can because the baby has probably tried to suck her breasts off her chest. Be patient with her if she doesn't want you to touch her breasts and if she does then you should concentrate on the underneath part of them.

Finally there are those babes who have filled up their chest with silicon for whatever reason. If done correctly implants will not affect the sensations that the girl will get when you play with her tits. These babes seem to get the most sensation when you start away from their nipples and gradually move your tongue or fingers in towards the nipples. So there you have a ton of information about tits and how to handle them. Perhaps you think you don't need this sort of information, unfortunately it is my experience that the vast majority of guys who see me have no idea what to do when presented with a pair of eager boobs just begging to be handled correctly.

It never ceases to amaze me that there are some women who are embarrassed by their boobs. I can understand girls who feel embarrassed because they feel that their mammaries are too small but the ones I can't understand are those who think their tits are too big or that they attract unwanted attention. Boobs are meant to attract guys (as well as feeding babies) so why complain when they fulfill their function? As a hooker and an internet amateur my boobs are one of my greatest assets and, while I am still amazed that so many guys do find them attractive, I am quite happy that they do and I'm quite happy to show them to whoever wants to see them.

My boobs started to develop when I was just 10 years old and by the time I was 12 they were so big that every boy in school wanted to touch them. Now they are a fine D cup and guys still want to touch them. The really strange thing about my boobs is that they actually grew in size from a C cup to the D after I moved in with my partner. There are undoubtedly some women who do not like having their boobs touched during sex but they are definitely in the minority. Most of us gals love it when a guy rolls our tits in his hands and licks, nibbles and sucks on them. Of course it depends on just how you guys do it as to whether we just like it or it absolutely blows us away. Some of my clients seem to think that girls like their boobs squeezed in a vice and rolled around like a lump of dough while others think that we like our nipples sucked so hard that it becomes painful. A while ago one of my clients sucked so hard on one of my nipples that I had a disgusting looking bruise there for a week. I was not impressed and I was certainly not aroused by that treatment. Let me tell you that most women will not find treatment like that to be arousing at all and if you want to have a good time with a girl then you must be aware of what she likes too because the best sex occurs when everyone has a great time. Even a hooker wants to have some fun with her clients so if you treat her right and take time to get her wound up you'll have a lot more fun and when the girl is really aroused you never know what she might do with her tits.

It's a real bonus for me when I'm fucking a guy who knows how to play with my tits and he is guaranteed to get more of my time and more of my attention than a guy who just wants to get his cock into my pussy and pound me till he cums. If the guy is prepared to take his time and make it pleasurable for me then I'm prepared to give him more time and make it even better for him.

Imagine lying on your stomach on a bed and the feeling of two heavy boobs slowly sliding from your feet up over your ass, up your back and coming to rest on the back of your head before they start to move back down your body till they have reached your feet again. Then you turn over and the massage begins again, slowly up your legs, pausing to give your hard cock a lot of attention and then up over your stomach and chest till two rock hard nipples are brushing your lips and dipping into your eyes. Then feel the shock as I sway back and forward so that my big boobs are hitting your face and almost suffocating you as they sit over your mouth demanding to be sucked and nibbled. If you can imagine that then you are seeing the sort of treatment that my regular clients get from my boobs. So far my boobs haven't given any guy a black eye but most clients say that my boobs are so heavy it is only a matter of time before they do.

When I finally get around to full on fucking a guy I love it when he wants to choose a position that allows him to play with my boobs. A hard pounding cock deep in my pussy and gentle hands rolling and squeezing my boobs is guaranteed to have me moaning with pleasure and if the guy can manage to get his tongue onto my nipples then Iím almost certain to have a screaming orgasm once he starts to blow his load inside me.

Of course some positions are better than others when it comes to playing with a girl's tits while fucking her at the same time. Missionary is not the best position although some guy's can manage to do a very good job of stimulating my tits with their hands and tongue while ramming their cock into me at the same time. Doing a girl doggie lets the guy lean forward and play with her tits but it's a bit hard to fuck and play at the same time in that position. When a guy is fucking me that way and stops to play with my tits I just have to give him a gentle hint to keep fucking me because when a cock is in me from behind I just NEED it to keep moving!

If the guy wants to be on top and still wants to play with my tits then the best position is if I put my legs up over his shoulders while he kneels in front of me. My legs support him and I can keep thrusting against his cock while he leans forward and gets my tits tingling. Of course, the all time best position is if the girl is on top and that is the position my guys seem to prefer when they want to play with my tits. They can squeeze and nibble and suck while I continue to ride up and down on their rod and I can also lean forward and slap their face with my boobs if they get a bit cheeky or stop playing with my boobs. They can also get a great display if all they want to do is watch ñ big boobs bounce around when the girl is riding a hard cock.

Guys love boobs, most girls love guys who know how to play with their boobs. Damn, all that talk of sex and boobs had made me horny so I'm off to grab my partner for a matinee. Next time I'll give you a few hints on just how to play with them.

First I will say this, I know there are a lot of women out there who don't like giving or receiving oral sex. I understand that you may think that it is dirty or like in an Asian country some women have stopped as they think it is an evil sin. I will have to find out where this article is and perhaps publish the web address in my next column. Why am I writing about giving your man a blowjob in my column you may ask, well I believe that if you please your man like he tries to please you, then to please him will please you too. When giving a blowjob, giving head or going down on your man, did you know that this form of sexual gratification too could turn you on?

Hot Blow Job

How do you give the perfect blowjob?

Hehehehe, blowjobs, bjs hmmmmm good topic don't you think?

Giving a blowjob can be such a turn of for both parties so try it before you say you don't like it.

Once again like with the guys you both need to be comfortable with it. If you feel that it is not a clean 'tool' then have a shower together. Ladies take it in your hands, grab the soap, lather it up and wash it, play with it, see how it responds to your touch.

If there is room in the shower, kneel down in front of him and look closely at it, see how clean it is, before flicking your tongue over the tip. See how clean it is Now you know that it's clean because you helped wash it thoroughly, Close your mouth around it and feel it grow hard in your warm, moist mouth.

Take control and enjoy it as much as your partner!!

If you are being sensual and your partner tries to thrust causing you to deep throat and gag when you are not ready, grab him gently with you teeth, not tight enough to break the skin but tight enough to stop him

Do not break the skin

if you do all the romantic desires will have gone!!!!!

Ladies use your tongue, flicking it backwards and forwards as you suck. You can do both at the same time. Trust me on that one

Now if you feel comfortable sucking him in the shower, get off your knees and head to somewhere a bit more comfortable, like the bed, continue what you were already doing but in a different position.

Ok first if you have lube ñ like KY jelly handy grab that before getting onto the bed, flavored is great.

Have your guy lay down on the bed, kneel between his knees, squeeze a little bit of the lube, covering both hands

Take his penis into your hands, see how slippery and sensual it is, gently massaging the shaft with both hands, occasionally teasing the head paying particular attention to the underside of the head.

Remember that you must be gentle that is why I keep referring to that particular word.

Now ladies hold on to his cock, use your tongue flicking over the head, lick the head all over and use the flat of your tongue to cover more area, gently suck on the head, sucking it into your mouth at the same time flick your tongue back and forwards around the head. Pay particular attention to the Frenulum (the underside of the penis), as itís the most sensitive part of the glans (the head of the penis).

Tease him and please him at the same time, you can do it!

Run your hands over his inner thighs as you mouth moves on his shaft. Lower your mouth over his shaft and the trick to taking in as much as you can ñ to deep throat is to breath out as you are taking him in. I know this is a big ask, but concentrate on your breathing at the same time to avoid the uncontrollable urges you may get. I won't go into detail, but I am sure you know what I am talking about.

As you suck him deep into your mouth and with your hand around the lowest part of the shaft pump him gently as your mouth rides his hot swollen penis.

As a bonus for your partner with the hand that is almost free, gently massage your partner's testicles. Squeeze them, hold them, run your finger nails over them there's that word again 'gently', and at the same time sensually play with them.

Now the choice is yours. If your partner is your long-term partner and you feel you would like to taste him and swallow his cum, then read on, if not skip this paragraph and go on to the next Your partner's cock is throbbing with anticipation as your tongue works it's magic, you taste his pre-cum it's salty but nice, you wrap your hand firmly but not too tight around his cock, with your mouth sucking him deep, keep sucking as you pump him faster and faster Keep stroking him until you feel his cock throb and suddenly he explodes sending his hot creamy cum down your throat Look at him and lick your lips to show how much you enjoyed sucking his rod dry

For the ladies who don't like the taste, when you feel your partner's cock throbbing and you feel his hips starting to thrust against you, take your mouth of his penis and with your hand wrapped firmly around his shaft pump faster and faster. Let your partner tell you how fast and how hard to stroke him as he gets nearer and nearer to dropping his load for you.

As he ejaculates let him know that you are excited too. I love watching a guy cum so as he is crying out in pleasure, if you are enjoying it too then I am sure you will know what to do Taking control of your partner's orgasm ultimately is a turn-on; learn how to give that special blowjob as it can ultimately be a satisfying experience for all involved.

Since the body of a woman is one of the most delightful things in a man's life, it is only natural that men should want to be more curious about what spots must be touched to drive a woman wild with desire. The erogenous zones are areas of the female and male bodies that have heightened sensitivity. Stimulation of these areas usually results in sexual response, although not every individual responds in the same way to the stimulation of all erogenous zones.

Some of the erogenous zones of the female body, such as the nape of the neck and the inner thighs, are well known from the popular literature. Others, such as the feet and the buttocks, are seen as belonging rather to the fetish group by certain people. However, we shall review them all here.

The feet: The feet are a good place to start hen learning about the power of touch over a woman's sensitive areas. Many women like to have their toes tickled, licked and sucked on lightly. Yes, this does sound like a brave thing to do for many men, but many guys actually enjoy it. Moving up we find the back of the knees, which is an area featuring a high number of nerve endings. This means that the skin is very sensitive to touches and kisses. Further up still are the inner thighs, one of the most popular erogenous areas. Kiss them lightly, bite them lightly and caress to your (and hers) heart's content. Women will love it. At the top backside of the feet are the buttocks, another sensitive area and most women like to have it caressed. If you want to make her sizzling hot, you can also try kissing and licking and I'm sure most guys would not mind if it led to a little anal sex.

The nape of her neck and the ears. These two are a powerful combination and are usually the place to start the foreplay. Kissing, licking, caressing and massage work wonders on the most sensual part of her neck, while gently nibbling her ears will maker her hot and show you are a sophisticated lover at the same time.

The big three. And finally we come to the big three erogenous zones everybody knows about (which reminds me about that story of a German couple who did not have kids because they had no idea they were supposed to have sex, nor any idea what sex was). The big three are the lips, the breasts and the vagina/clitoris area. Kisses, caresses, licking, touching and fondling are not only highly recommended, but actually a must for any man who wants to experience the good things in life. And keep in mind that it pays to learn about both what makes your lady go over the edge with pleasure and the way to get her there.

Have fun and stay safe.