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How To Talk Dirty To Your Boyfriend

One of the biggest hurdles to talking dirty is confusion. You may ask yourself "What does my partner want" or maybe you ask yourself "Should I Know How To Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend?" and than you might want to know what is going too far, and what isn't going far enough? How do you even know that he will embrace your naughty vixen at all? If he's dropped hints or talked dirty to you in bed, you've got a clue that he wants you to get a little raunchier. But for the beginner who isn't sure where to go from here, the whole idea of dirty talk can be intimidating.

Start out slow - flirt! Show your lover how much you want to be with him. Slip a sexy note into his briefcase or stick a post-it on the dashboard of the car. Make it short and sweet - "I loved the things you did to me last night" - and let his imagination run wild. Send him an email at some point during the day, telling him something different, a little flirty, but not over-the-top: "I love the way your kisses taste."

He's probably going to write back, or somehow engage you to talk more, and you should! Don't hesitate to get a bit steamier. "I love the way you sound when you do that thing you do," is a good line that will make him wonder: How do I sound? And what thing, exactly? It will get him thinking about the last time the two of you made love, and that's what you want him to do. You want him thinking about sex with you, because the more he thinks about it, the more he's going to want a repeat performance.

When you are in bed, test your dirty talk wings by trying out anything other than words. Talk to him in sighs, moans and groans. Show him what you want by your breathing, and let your body be your guide - take his hand and show him exactly where you want to be touched, and how. Even if you've had sex a thousand times, having such an outright showing of desire will make it seem like a whole new game.

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When the sighs and moans have gotten your point across, start talking about his body - and yours! Caress his shoulders while you tell him how strong and powerful he feels. Tell him how small you feel when you're next to him. Do that one little thing that makes him breathless, look him right in the eye, and ask, "How much do you like that, big boy? Do you want more?"

Making him talk to you will guide you to the kind of dirty talk he wants to hear. If he gets raunchy and makes you blush, don't cower into saying nothing - counter his naughty words with sexy words of your own. Build up the tension until you're saying things that you would never, ever say in the light of day. If he backs off a bit, you might have shocked him, so go back to the words you know he likes to hear.

 

 

On the other hand, if he responds favorably to your hard-core dirty talking, the sky's the limit!

Let's say your lover has been very vocal about one particular fantasy lately. Maybe he's gone on and on with details about his fantasy escapades with another woman while you sit back and watch. Maybe he's talked about watching you with another woman - or another man - while he films it all. Has he mentioned something more taboo, the kind of things that make you blush like mad when you think of them, the fantasies you know he would never really want to try? Those fantasies don't have to stop with dirty talk . While you don't have to go all the way and make them a reality (after all, do you really want to get arrested for having public sex in Central Park?), you can ramp up the fire by recreating those fantasies as best you can - right in the privacy of your own bedroom. When it comes to fulfilling some of those dirty talk fantasies, sex toys are your friend! A trip through the internet sex shops can provide hours of fun and any toy you can imagine. If you're more adventurous, locate your nearest local store and pay them a visit. Take your lover along. As you're shopping for the toys, whisper into his ear that you remember that fantasy he loves so much. Would he like to try it out now? If you're the kind who loves to spring surprises on your partner, keep your activities quiet until the big night, when you put a smile on his face by telling him his fantasy is about to come true. If he's dying to be with two women at once, but you're not comfortable with actually inviting another woman into bed with you, now is the time to invest in men's sex toys! We're not talking about those silly blow-up dolls, either. There are plenty of products out there that stimulate the feel and motion of a woman's most intimate parts. Blindfold your lover, tie him to the bed, and whisper into his ear while you slowly slide that toy down his erection. Make him imagine it's another woman, and taunt him with it - perhaps demand that he come for her and let you watch. You know what trips your man's trigger, so use it to your advantage! This fantasy trick works for you, too. Want to be with two men but you're too shy to ever really consider it? Those sex shops have a huge variety of dildos to choose from. Ask your lover to use one on you while you do something to him - what, it doesn't matter. It's your fantasy! Simulate the idea of two men by using that dildo and making the most of your dirty talk while you're doing it. It might not be the "real thing" but it's pretty close! You can also spice up the dirty talk with costumes. Does your lover have a thing for being spanked by his teacher? Become that teacher! Outfit yourself with the skirt, the finely-pressed blouse, the wire-rimmed glasses and the hair in the bun. Hold a ruler in one hand and a piece of chalk in the other. If he's been a very bad boy, he gets a good spank with that ruler - and if he's been exceptionally bad, he gets a trip to the principal's office, where he just might meet up with the big paddle. The dirty talk fantasies are endless. Which ones do you want to make into reality? Ask your lover which ones he wants to take a bit further, and then you can work together to make your favorite fantasies into your favorite bedroom games.

 

Sometimes a couple can spend a great session of erotic intimacy, just masturbating each other while kissing and playing around. There is a certain freedom that comes from the ability of not having your pelvises fused throughout the entire event, so you can check things out and experiment from other angles that otherwise would never be available.

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Public Sex: It is a proven, scientific fact that the combination of the adrenaline rush and the increased blood flow created by the speeded heartbeat, leads to very intense and extremely sensate climaxes. The very thrill of being in a strange or dangerous place, creates an adventure in the psyche, which is where 75% of sex actually takes place.

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Or-games: No more war games, make love not war. I say it’s time for Orgasm Games or what I like to call, “Or-Games!” Play! Sex is supposed to be fun, exciting, stimulating, instinctive, unpredictable, spontaneous and creative. Invent scenarios, play roles, or just goof around, enjoy one another’s company, make each other happy. Have FUN!

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A lot of women don’t enjoy watching porn, because most of it is created from a purely male perspective, for the male perspective. However, there is some available porno, written and directed by women, that includes the story, the romance or even just the sexual allure from the lady’s perspective, and they are known to get babes hot to trot!

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The belly is an erogenous zone. Kiss it, lick it, nibble on it and suck it. Tell her that you dig her belly and that it’s the sexiest tummy you’ve ever seen, and she all yours. All women, even famous Actresses and Fashion Models, are afraid that they are fat. Accept a woman’s belly, tell her it turns you on, and you’ll have a friend for life!

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The top 10 favorite “Kinky Locations” to have sex, according to women polled between the ages of 18 and 45, are, in order from #1 on down to #10, The Beach, Elevators, Moving Cars, Nature trails, Hot Tubs, Dressing Rooms, In front of hotel windows, Public Restrooms, Balconies and Pools. The hottest place, but a huge risk nowadays, Airplanes!

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